In a large bowl, whisk the [instant vanilla pudding mix] with the cold [whole milk] until thick and smooth. My daughter loves watching it magically thicken in just a couple minutes, it never gets old
Gently fold in the [whipped topping] until the pudding becomes light and airy. This is my daughter’s favorite part, she calls it “cloud mixing.
Slice the [bananas] and [strawberries]. If little hands are helping, I let my daughter handle the strawberries while I take care of the knife work
Line the bottom of your dish with [vanilla wafer cookies], then add [bananas], [strawberries], and a generous layer of pudding. Watching the layers build is pure joy.
Repeat the layers until everything is used up, finishing with a thick, creamy pudding layer on top
Cover and refrigerate for at least 4 hours. My daughter always asks if we can peek early, but trust me, the wait makes it even sweeter.
Right before serving, top with [extra whipped topping] and [whole strawberries]. Then scoop, serve, and watch smiles spread around the table