Mix the dry ingredients: I let my daughter pour the flour into the bowl while I measure. In a large bowl, whisk together the all-purpose flour, granulated sugar, baking powder, baking soda, and salt until everything looks evenly mixed and lump free. This is where fluffy pancakes begin.
Whisk the wet ingredients: In a separate bowl, whisk the whole milk, eggs, melted butter, and vanilla extract until smooth. Olivia loves watching the butter swirl in, and I remind her that room temperature ingredients mix best.
Combine the batter: Pour the wet mixture into the dry ingredients and gently fold with a spatula just until combined. I always tell my helper that lumps are good. Overmixing makes tough pancakes and we want soft clouds.
Rest the batter: Let the batter rest for 5 minutes while you heat the pan. This little pause lets the flour hydrate and helps the pancakes rise beautifully. It is a perfect moment to set the table together.
Heat the skillet: Heat a nonstick skillet over medium heat and lightly grease with butter. When a drop of water sizzles, it is ready.
Cook the pancakes: Pour about ⅓ cup of batter onto the skillet. Cook until bubbles form on the surface and edges look set, then flip and cook until golden. Olivia always cheers when she gets the flip just right.
Serve and enjoy: Stack the pancakes high, add butter, drizzle with syrup, and enjoy them warm together at the table. These moments are my favorite part of the recipe.