I always let my little Olivia turn the oven dial, it makes her feel like the official baker in charge. Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C) and line your [9x13-inch pan] with parchment paper.
In a bowl, stir [graham cracker crumbs] and [melted butter] together until sandy and golden. Olivia loves pressing it into the pan with her little hands, it’s messy, but magical.
Evenly sprinkle [chocolate chips] over the crust. Olivia always sneaks one. I pretend not to notice.
Scatter the [butterscotch chips] across the chocolate layer. This is the scent Olivia says smells “like candy dreams.”
Sprinkle the [shredded coconut] and [chopped pecans or walnuts] evenly over the pan for that signature chewy crunch.
Slowly drizzle the [sweetened condensed milk] over everything. My daughter calls this the “glue that holds happiness together.”
Bake for 25–30 minutes until the edges are golden and bubbly.
Cool for 1 hour, then refrigerate for 2 hours before slicing. This is the hardest part for Olivia, waiting.